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The combination of canceling my trip to Detroit and spraining my knee mean I’m going to be seeing even more of my home than usual, so this month’s June blogging theme: Home seemed quite appropriate. Maybe I should sift through and pull out all the home and housework related books to read and liven up the bookblog at the same time.

That might be too productive. Plus, we still have 15 days of Artomatic left, plus a month of tear-down so I shouldn’t get too ambitious about getting my life back. (You don’t really think we all just go home the day the show ends, do you?)

One thing’s for sure, I’m benched for the rest of Roller Derby season.

Dr. Birdcage saw it too…

Dr. Birdcage was here to put in her volunteer shifts at Artomatic this weekend (yes, Board members still have to volunteer). We had a slumber party. This morning when we walked out the door to have some pho for breakfast before she hit the road, a woman walked past us with a refrigerator on her head. This is not exactly a normal site around here. The occasional basket of laundry, sure. But home appliances? Not so much.

I was glad I remembered to snap some pictures, because we were so sleep-deprived we figured no one would believe us.

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I realize the camera-phone gives them a Yeti-sighting like quality, but what can you do? I haven’t been able to find my camera for days. (It’s been in my purse. I’ve officially become my mother).

Oh hell

Last night of my mom’s visit. I had a brilliant post constructed in my mind and a martini washed it away.

Oh wait, I know what it was.

I spent time with my mom today for Mother’s Day. (We’re not very good with schedules). We put in a new sunflower bed today and planted seeds for 9 varieties of sunflowers.

I carefully planned out the bed, taking into account size of plant, size of flower, color schemes, and the like. I carefully amended the soil. I’ve mulched around, but not over, the future plants.

Then, mom and I took stock of my handywork and imagined how lovely it’s going to look in a few months.

Then, we remembered that’s where my new sunroom is going.

Frida

Spent some quality time with the in-laws, catching the traveling Frida Kahlo show which celebrates the 100th anniversary of Kahlo’s birth by gathering together an astonishing number of her works and hundreds of photographs of Kahlo and her family and friends. It was organized by the Walker Art Center (Minneapolis) and the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art, and in between Minneapolis and San Francisco, the show spent a few months at the at the Philadelphia Museum of Art, which is where we caught up with it.

(Small New Yorker mention when the show first opened: Peter Schjeldahl, “All Souls: The Frida Kahlo Cult”)

It was an amazing show, but it was depressing. Deeply depressing. Profoundly depressing. Astonishing and completely worthwhile, yes, but deeply sad. Husband and I skipped the audio tour. Most of the people in the show had picked up the headsets, which was nice because it meant you could hear a pin drop even in rooms that were crowded. On the other hand, by the end of the exhibit the people who’d listened had a hundred yard stare that made me want to make sure the museum had locked the stairs to the roof and put away all of the sharp objects.

The show features over a hundred photographs of Kahlo and her family and friends, plus a dizzying array of her paintings. Many of these works have never been displayed publicly in the U.S. before, and certainly have never been displayed together. Arranged chronologically rather than thematically – although you could argue that in this show that’s really the same thing – the groupings represent the major periods in her life. Spinal surgeries, the miscarriage in Detroit, the first divorce from Diego, etc.

The show wrings the viewer out and plops them on the floor of the final room, wherein the last grouping of works is a series of cheerfully bright still life paintings.

These final works were introduced with words from Kahlo’s diary about her own death, “I hope the exit is joyful — and I hope never to come back.” They represent the agony of Kahlo’s final year as she coped with pneumonia and the amputation of her leg. These are mostly works she created because she knew they would sell and she could use the money for her medical bills. Look closely at the festive paintings and you can see she was so doped up that she must have struggled mightily to maintain her focus on her subject and to control her every brushstroke.

People exited the show looking like they’d just been released from Azkaban. To further disconcert the viewer, they then get to try to shake the dementors off their back while walking straight into a Frida Kahlo emporium with more licensed tie-in products than I think I’ve ever seen for any show. Rooms of neckties and paperdolls and jewelry and clothing and other happy household objects festooned with images of Frida and her monkeys. Looking at the reproduction necklace – complete with thorns and hummingbird – threatened to bring back the migraine I’d just gotten rid of. (Actually, I have to admit that piece was so weird, it was oddly attractive).

It’s a brilliant show and was well worth the trip, but before we left town we went back to the museum to hang out with the Buddhas and look at the stone temple for a while to recover.

Monday’s journey in the rain was no fun, but Tuesday’s trip back still took well over 4 hours and started to make us both a little stir crazy in the car. At one point I thought Husband brightly exclaimed, “Let’s pretend we’re Canadian!” When asked him what he meant, he couldn’t remember what he’d just actually said, because we immediately became preoccupied with ending every sentence with, “eh?”

It’s good to be home. Now I have to clean the house because Husband’s mother-in-law is on her way to stay with us.