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Sleazefest was really terrific. Really, really terrific. After we drink the fabulous bottle of champagne we got to celebrate our wedding anniversary, we’ll be looking into having our blood transfused. (And before I forget, Liz and Jim, we owe you a round of drinks.)

I need to go relax and listen to some new CDs now…look for updates throughout the week. When I’m more lucid I’ll point you to Perilous Cheryl’s site. If you’re in Connecticut be sure to catch her special Sleazefest show Thursday night from 6-8 p.m. on WHUS 97.1 FM.

later gators!

WAFFLEHOUSE BOUND (like outward bound but with cholesteral)

In two days I get to go to the Waffle House. I’m so happy. For those of you who do not have the good taste to decorate your homes with framed Waffle House menus, be assured you can now download them at the corporate site (wafflehouse.com).

uh-oh, I’m already on vacation
Actually, I’m at lunch, but I think my brain just left for sleazefest

Here are the bands I’m most looking forward to seeing (in no particular order):
The Bellrays I saw them described last year as “if MC5 was fronted by Aretha Franklin.” I thought, “yeah, right.” Then I saw/heard them. Holy shit. I’m very excited about seeing them again.

Another band I’m excited about seeing again is Big Lazy (formerly Lazy Boy). They’re terrific. If you’ve seen startup.com you’ve already sampled their work and you probably don’t even know it…but you should. What can I say, I’m a sucker for bands with double basses, especially when the bass player can really play. Even a power outage didn’t stop them last year.

I’m also partial to theremins, so Billy Joe Winghead fits the bill nicely. I’ve learned many valuable things about the relationship between lunchmeat, powertools, and firecrackers from these boys over the years as well. Oh yeah, and they can play real good, too!

I’m also excited about seeing Mary Prankster. I’m a little nervous too, since something goes wrong every time I try to see her. This used to happen with Sun Ra, too, and then he died or went back to Saturn or whatever. I got to see him a bunch of times before the Mothership called him home, but still…it makes me nervous.

Oh, let’s face it, I’m excited about sleazefest in general and plan to check out as many of the bands as possible.

Our Wedding

Eric and Rebecca are pleased to announce that they were married on Friday, August 6, 1999 in Orange County, North Carolina. After the ceremony, they celebrated with 150 of their friends who they only see once a year. This involved two days of loud music, rampant public drunkenness, a man sitting in a large vat of banana pudding, and a bass player who breaths fire while she plays. But we’re getting ahead of ourselves here…

We know this is the equivalent of a Christmas newsletter in August, but it seemed the best way to share some of the highlights of our wedding weekend with those of you who either weren’t able to attend or have no memory of attending.

Friday, August 6th we packed the car and headed for North Carolina. Debbie and Bryan, Eric’s sister and brother-in-law, met us at the Orange County Courthouse in Hillsborough, NC. After procuring our marriage license and a mysterious sealed bag labeled “Newlywed Sampler” from Joyce, the Registrar of Deeds, the wedding party changed clothes in the courthouse bathroom and headed for the Magistrate’s Office, conveniently located in the County Jail.

Because in all of the many phonecalls I made to work out the details of this little adventure, it never occurred to me to ask if the magistrates were located in the Courthouse. This turned out to be a foolish assumption. For future reference, the actual magistrates are over at the jail.

The magistrate, Amy, was extremely cool. The ceremony was held beneath a lovely old oak tree.

The wedding party then dined at the Hillsborough Waffle House. The Newlywed Sampler was opened. It contained: paper towels, dishwashing liquid, Nyquil, Bounce dryer sheets and coupons for pregnancy test kits and cleaning supplies. It was truly a thing of wonder.

It was now time for: Sleazefest, day one. For those of you who don’t know, Sleazefest is 3 days of beer, bands, bbq, and sweat held at Local 506 in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. The music starts each day at 4 p.m. and ends somewhere around sunrise. Happy Hour is at noon. (www.sleazfest.com) Local 506 owner Dave Robertson was thrilled that Sleazefest was our wedding reception. We’ll be having a party in DC for those of you who could not attend Sleazefest, but I’m sorry to report that Eric continues to veto my suggestion that we build a go-go cage in the basement.

Our fellow sleazefesters (old and new friends) were thrilled with our wedding plans. Several of them had also been married at the jail, while others among them had served time there. No judgment, just facts.

As the sun rose on the end of the first day of Sleazefest, we realized something important: you are supposed to have strippers at the bachelor party, NOT the reception. Live and learn.

One of our friends pointed out that it’s stilly to have one mediocre wedding band when you can have 20 or 30 really good bands. We agreed, especially when two-thirds of Jack Black joined Billy Joe Wingehead for a showstopping rendition of “Freebird.” It was magical. Or we were drunk, because we both really hate that song.

One of our friends, Linda, is a librarian and drummer from Baltimore. Linda and Rebecca danced a few sets away in the go-go cage, joined by 506 Dave and an occasional Drive-By Trucker. Eric may or may not have joined them. He refuses to confirm or deny these rumors and in the interests of marital bliss Rebecca will do the same.

506 Dave then put Rebecca in charge of Cage Recruitment for the rest of the night. She did a poor job, because she and Linda had by then decided to keep the cage to themselves because they are such great dancers (or because it was under an actual A/C vent. Probably that second one).

Around midnight, Linda and Rebecca vowed to form a band.

I’m sure there were details about the second day, but you’ll have to use your imagination because things get a little hazy.

As the sun rose on the end of the 2nd day we knew that it was time for a little sleep and the long drive home.

We learned valuable life lessons this weekend. We were reminded of the importance of proper facial protection when slicing bologna with a chainsaw. We learned that throwing fried chicken during a Southern Culture on the Skids set is serious business & Rebecca is seriously bad at it. We learned that it can actually get hot and humid enough to rain indoors in a North Carolina nightclub in the summer time. Mostly, we learned that you should never let others foist their image of the ideal wedding on you, because we think ours was just fine.

Oh, and in case you’re wondering: Rebecca’s parents presented them with wedding bands and encouraged them to elope in the first place after taking a look at the budget for a wedding with 300 guests because we have large families.